Three Qualities of true friends.
Friends
are an important part of our lives. In
order to be true friends, they should have certain qualities. Three qualities that a true friend must have is
honesty, care, and loyalty.
The
prompt is asking about qualities of TRUE friends. This is very different from just friend you
just hang around for fun. True friends
are family. They will be next to you for
a lifetime, maybe not physically but spiritually.
The
First quality of true friends is loyalty.
True friends never betray each other.
They are there for each other even if it is a situation where one could
get hurt or get in trouble. For example,
if there is a fight and your friend is getting beat up and it looks as if it
will get more serious, a true friend would jump in and help the friend, even if
they still lose. Of course, he or she
will get hurt, but if that is what it takes to keep a true friend from getting
really hurt, one must go for it. It does
not even matter who won the fight, what matters is someone helping someone in
need. Another thing that is common
nowadays is spreading rumors. I have
seen a lot of people spreading rumors, false or true, in my school and in a lot
of places. It is very common; even fully
grown adults spread rumors. They do not
even know if it is true or not, they just spread it and not even think about
what’s going to happen to the person the rumor is about. A true friend would never spread rumors like
this because they actually care about the person the rumor is about and how
they would think about it. Rumors doesn’t
sound very important but to the person it affects, it is VERY important.
The second quality of a true friend
is care. True friends care about each
other; whether they had lunch and dinner, whether they have worries or not,
whether he or she is sick. A true friend
is like a mother, caring for her child.
Just friends would not actually care about these things and would just
like to play. Care is only present if
there is love. Not the love that boy
feels toward a girl or the love that the girl feels toward the boy but love
between friends.
The last quality of a true friend is
honesty. This is very important, even
for couples. If there is no honesty,
that means that there is lying going on and this will lead to fighting. Honest friends would last longer than not
honest friends. Even if there is
something that is secret, between true friends is should be shared. For example, if there is a secret that friend
number one knows and friend number two does not know, and friend number two
finds out the secret and also the fact that friend number one didn’t tell him,
he would be sad. Friend number two will
talk to friend number one about it and arguments will start.
These are the qualities of a true
friend. Although it is picky to deal with
a true friend, it isn’t a bad idea to have one because it will benefit each
other to have someone really close to share everything with. Even just talking about a problem does a lot of
help.